Tomorrow will be one year since Owen joined our family. Last year at this time Melissa and I were in Kunming, China wondering if we were ready for number four. Here are a few pictures from Gotcha Day 12/12/11.
Owen was so scared and unsure of what was happening. He had no expressions in his beautiful little face. The room was full of people and noise when they handed Owen to Melissa. Within a few minutes he had to have felt the love we were puring on him. Melissa held him so tightly and lovingly like only a mother can do. That may have been the first time Owen ever felt that type of love (or it may have been that she immediately started giving him Cheerios).
I remember taking Owen back to the hotel room and getting to know him. Owen had about three layers of clothes on and as we un-packed him we started to understand how frail he really was. Owen only weighed about 16-17 pounds and he was almost 2 years old. That night we gave him a bath (and he loved it) and we saw the scars on that little body. We could only imagine what he has endured until now.
We had a blast in China and Owen soon started trusting Melissa (and slowly started to think I might be ok someday) but he never really showed a lot of emotion. The little bit of personality he had seemed to be good but it would take a long time before he started to blossom.
Within a few days with Owen we knew there was a medical issue but had no idea what lay ahead. I was amazed with Melissa and her confidence that Owen would be fine and we would deal with whatever was to come.
Well after multiple surgeries and weeks in the hospital we think Owen has emerged a "new man'! Since his surgery in August (and then having the feeding tube removed about 8 weeks later) he has exploded into laughter and such a great personality. He laughs a lot and is so easy going. Plus he is still so beautiful!
Owen, we love you and thank God everyday for bringing you into our lives. You have blessed us in so many ways.
PS - you are the hardest person to get a good photo of.